So, I was reading this book where you don’t give a rat’s ass about a host of opinions. The book made me sit up and realize that we tend to worry about the opinions of everyone. I too was a part of this brigade let me tell you, I used to wonder about what A’s opinion was about and Z’s opinion was about that I pretty much got lost in translation.
So, I decided to junk being bothered about people’s opinions about me, because let’s face it, they are entitled to their points of view. I am entitled not to be bothered about their points of view. No doubt this is an ongoing battle.
Some people are so darn opinionated and passionately so with a supercilious attitude that I am foxed at having to deal with them at any given time. I choose to ignore them. As far as I am concerned, their opinions are just that – their opinions. I am entitled to my own and if my gut says to refrain from being in negative company, I follow that gut. It has never let me down except when I am amidst anything chocolate. That is when the gut needs to be gutted.
Now, darlings I would love to go on and on with this chatter, but you get my drift. When people want to be mean or be obnoxious unbecoming to what you would like to be around, why waste your precious conversation with them. Some folks thrive on the negative.
When you radiate positivity, many will try to get you out of that zone. That is precisely when you have to stay the course and remain positive. Let the negative many have their time in the sun, you throw them some shade, in a positive manner – get the drift?
Xo darlings
So, I decided to junk being bothered about people’s opinions about me, because let’s face it, they are entitled to their points of view. I am entitled not to be bothered about their points of view. No doubt this is an ongoing battle.
Some people are so darn opinionated and passionately so with a supercilious attitude that I am foxed at having to deal with them at any given time. I choose to ignore them. As far as I am concerned, their opinions are just that – their opinions. I am entitled to my own and if my gut says to refrain from being in negative company, I follow that gut. It has never let me down except when I am amidst anything chocolate. That is when the gut needs to be gutted.
Now, darlings I would love to go on and on with this chatter, but you get my drift. When people want to be mean or be obnoxious unbecoming to what you would like to be around, why waste your precious conversation with them. Some folks thrive on the negative.
When you radiate positivity, many will try to get you out of that zone. That is precisely when you have to stay the course and remain positive. Let the negative many have their time in the sun, you throw them some shade, in a positive manner – get the drift?
Xo darlings
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