Further to the earlier post, having received innumerable mails and a few comments, I would like to point out that I have no ulterior motive but just stating it like it is based on facts that I have been heard from friends, acquaintances and others who are being cheated on by their partners. Having said that, I’m sure you are with me here on this one that once a person looks around while he/she is in a relationship then the individual wasn’t that committed in the first place. For the life of me I cannot fathom how people can betray their significant other in a “till death do us part” scenario. The pains they must go through keeping their act a secret while they have their cake must be pure torture.
So what does one do when you find out that your partner is cheating? I would say never ignore the tell tale signs believing it isn’t happening to you. A good number of people prefer to ignore these signs fooling themselves into believing that it isn’t happening to them - when in fact it is. However, many couples prefer going the mile to work on the relationship and some are rewarded with a happy ever after while others come out with egg on their faces. I say kudos to the people who have made it work after sorting things out. They have learned to understand one other and in spite of feeling nauseated at being betrayed, they move on and... live happily ever after.
Would you?
So what does one do when you find out that your partner is cheating? I would say never ignore the tell tale signs believing it isn’t happening to you. A good number of people prefer to ignore these signs fooling themselves into believing that it isn’t happening to them - when in fact it is. However, many couples prefer going the mile to work on the relationship and some are rewarded with a happy ever after while others come out with egg on their faces. I say kudos to the people who have made it work after sorting things out. They have learned to understand one other and in spite of feeling nauseated at being betrayed, they move on and... live happily ever after.
Would you?
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