Cheating

Why do people throw good relationships for a quick roll in the hay? This practice seems to be growing and practically every second person in a committed relationship doesn’t think twice about two timing his/her partner.

However, when they are “found out” these individuals don’t think twice about promising the moon and once forgiven you can be pretty sure that they are gonna do (sic) the deed again and again. I think that once they go the entire hog, they just aren’t gonna curb their enthusiasm!

Cheaters know their partners will relent no matter what. They preen themselves with having “won”! However, if a person cheats on me, I would tell the jerk to beat it. Rather be single, keep your dignity intact than stick with some douche bag. Not my cuppa … What about you my lovelies?

Comments

Sandra said…

Nice post. Quite interesting. I liked it. even I do agree with you in this point.

I have come across an online relationship test which I found to be very interesting. Take the test Cheating Partner and find out whether or not you have something to worry about.

October 5, 2010 at 2:31 PM

Anonymous said…

if people set the Right expectations in their Relationship...it will last...

October 5, 2010 at 4:54 PM

theotherpersonality.blogspot.in said…

Thanks for the link Sandra. At the moment I have no reason to worry since I'm not in a relationship! Whew! But I will surely pass this on to others who are going through a bad phase with a cheating partner.

October 5, 2010 at 4:57 PM

theotherpersonality.blogspot.in said…

I agree with you there V. However, there are times when people do set the right expectations and go the entire mile but the relationship still sours.

Based on the cheating element however, does one actually give the person (cheater) another chance... and another.. and so on?

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